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Kbellkbell
Apr 27, 2011, 01:45 PM
My friend thinks it OK to hit me and make fun of me because she thinks its funny and she says that's what friens so to each other. I am really getting sick of her crap and also she acts like I can't have more than one friend like she can be my only bestie but she has tons of friends so what do I do?

From,
Annoyed and abused

spitvenom
Apr 27, 2011, 01:49 PM
Stop talking to her and gets some real friends. You are in a controlling and abusive friendship. Get away from her as fast as you can.

DoulaLC
Apr 27, 2011, 02:43 PM
Why does she abuse you? Because you stick around and let her. Why do you need a friend like that? She has a warped sense of how friends treat each other. Playing around is one thing, but if you have told her to stop and she hasn't, and if she is telling you who you can be friends with, she is not a friend at all.

Time to tell her what you said here... you are tired of it. Then tell her that you have decided you are going to be friends with people who treat you better.

kcomissiong
Apr 30, 2011, 06:42 PM
DoulaLC is right... you will be treated in your relationships exactly how you let people let you. If you allow somebody to abuse your body, feelings, and friendship, they will. Become a person who does not accept that type of treatment from anyone and associate only with people who treat you accordingly.

amicon
May 1, 2011, 12:41 AM
Tell her she's no longer your friend.

You don't have to accept abuse,of any kind from anyone.

Make friends with normal,decent people.

Lizzypop97
May 4, 2011, 04:48 PM
If you think she really is a good a person then sit her down and talk to her, alone. Tell her how it makes you feel when she is abusive and ask her to stop. If she still doesn't stop then tell her that you aren't friends with her anymore find new ones. Goodluck :)