Okay so I was dating my first girlfriend and things were... Not the best and after time we grew apart she still loves me but I'm done with her, and this really sweet girl was there for me and admitted she liked me "Alot" and we texted for a few days and on Friday I asked her out, and she said yes with a giant smile on her face... We talked and kissed no making out and I asked what she was looking for, and I told her I wanted a girl that's there for me, and a long term relationship, and I said I don't use girls so if she didn't want to do something like sex then I would be cool with it... She admitted that she was kind of a sl*t and she doesn't deserve me because I have control over sex...

And she also told me she wants a committed relationship but after we hung out we texted but she was hesitant to text A lot or talk on the phone long... And by Sunday that weekend she badly talked to me and while she was out with her friends she told her friend to break up with me for her threw text and tried calling on her phone and she immediately hung up then I called her friend and she said she was busy drinking a soda...

I got the hint and she ignored all my texts then that day I went to her friends house were she was hanging out, and I asked if I could sit next to her she said yes then a minute later she got up went inside and told her friend NOT to let me in... She ignored my texts until late that night and I said she was a beautiful and amazing girl ( I have known her awhile) and it was a really sweet message and her friend told me she was all giggily and happy with a big smile... And she said it was the sweetest thing she has ever seen but then she just started balling her eyes out and was sad... And she texted me saying just wanted to be single and had A lot on her mind... Well I told her I am always there for her if she wants to talk...

And she is yet to talk to me she said "I just want to be single" but I know girls say that A lot when it's really something else... I talked around and she has done this to about 6 other guys I think something is going on that I don't know about... And please don't just tell me to find a new girl!! I really like her, but what do you think is going on??

When things get this confusing,walk away.

Let her go confuse somebody else.

Well from previous experiences, this girl might be looking for the perfect guy.. and by that most girls love when a guy would do anything for them. And in this scenario I'm guessing that she wants a guy her type that would do something for her and that is a relationship with intimacy. The fact that you almost practically said no to sex it might have made her run.

She has done this to 6 guys already??

Well who is #7?? You!!

First off, she should have been dumped when she first showed her bad behavior. The rest is YOU not taking the hint, manning up instead of being made a fool of, when she is with her friends.

Walk away, with some dignity from this fruitcake.