Sweet_moment11
Apr 17, 2011, 08:52 PM
This is a long story, and I'm not that great at explaining things, so please bare with me ^_^"
Okay, so it all began with a good friend of mine (let's call him A). A and I have been really awesome friends since the beginning of my freshman year. He was really the first person to even try to talk to me, so naturally we became buddies. I met B (his best friend) though an afterschool course. We had gotten to know each other, and after awhile he had asked me out. I had developed somewhat of a crush on him, so I said yes ofcourse. A week goes by and I'm really starting to like B. We have loads of stuff in common, and I couldn't be happier.
Another week and a half goes by, when I get a disturbing text from A. In the text he confessed to me that he had liked me all along, and that he couldn't believe how stupid I was for dating B because B just asked me out to make him(A) jealous (or so he claimed). He went on to list details about why I should hate B's guts (complete with an array of curses and colorful analogies). I responded by apologizing for not realizing his feelings (I really had no idea!), and stating that I didn't like the way he just freely dissed his "best friend" behind his back. He didn't reply (out of anger probably... )
The next day I get a text message from B that said he wanted to break up with me. Apparently he valued his relationship with A so much that he couldn't bear to have A mad at him. He told me that he still liked me but he just didn't want any turmoil between him and A.
A still wants to go out with me. B still likes me, but he values his friendship with A more. I still like B.
What do I do? I've tried to reason with both of them but with no luck... HELP.
Okay, so it all began with a good friend of mine (let's call him A). A and I have been really awesome friends since the beginning of my freshman year. He was really the first person to even try to talk to me, so naturally we became buddies. I met B (his best friend) though an afterschool course. We had gotten to know each other, and after awhile he had asked me out. I had developed somewhat of a crush on him, so I said yes ofcourse. A week goes by and I'm really starting to like B. We have loads of stuff in common, and I couldn't be happier.
Another week and a half goes by, when I get a disturbing text from A. In the text he confessed to me that he had liked me all along, and that he couldn't believe how stupid I was for dating B because B just asked me out to make him(A) jealous (or so he claimed). He went on to list details about why I should hate B's guts (complete with an array of curses and colorful analogies). I responded by apologizing for not realizing his feelings (I really had no idea!), and stating that I didn't like the way he just freely dissed his "best friend" behind his back. He didn't reply (out of anger probably... )
The next day I get a text message from B that said he wanted to break up with me. Apparently he valued his relationship with A so much that he couldn't bear to have A mad at him. He told me that he still liked me but he just didn't want any turmoil between him and A.
A still wants to go out with me. B still likes me, but he values his friendship with A more. I still like B.
What do I do? I've tried to reason with both of them but with no luck... HELP.