OK I don't want to hear "oh, you're to young" or "that's creepy" or even "he's changed probably" heard it all before.

First of all, no I'm not to young actually and I'm not obsessed, yes he has changed, he's even nicer than before, he's got respect and is a kind guy from what I've seen.
We never really got together, but we kissed once and it's fairly obvious that we've both loved each other at some point. You can't love someone you hardly ever see though, the connection just falls away, but when we do see each other for any amount of time it's ideal.
Heck, I know we'll never probably be together but I need some closeure here, Is there anyway to disscuss our feelings without making the situation turn sour?

a: you didn't say how old you or he are
b: I'm guessing 'a' will be the basis of 'creepy'
c: what was he before he changed?
d: what makes you say you're not obsessed
e: you kissed once, rarely see each other.. when was it that you loved each other at some point?
f: what connection?
g: closure on what?

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Is there anyway to disscuss our feelings without making the situation turn sour

What situation? You hardly see each other..

Also.. any start of any relationship, good or bad starts with honest open communication. It may go sour or it may go exceptionally well.. without talking you'll never know.

You don't know this guy, you are in love with the idea of loving your first crush, but not in love with the actual person this first crush happened to be.

chuff finds this helpful : Thank God you stopped at G because this could have gone on a while.

Lol.. I like being thorough!

So without more info, it is creepy and you are too young