OK me and my fiancé have been going out now a year next month on the 8th... we started having sex everyday and it was great it was just a few months ago when the sex slowed down to not everyday but every so many days and OK I thought that was normal, but the problem is and this has been an on going problem for some reason my boyfriend can't ejaculate just from me and it makes me feel really bad! I have tried talking about it with him but he just gets irritated and it really doesn't help the matter. I asked him the other day is he cheating on me because I have had that problem before and he said no and I honestly believe him because besides in bed we have a great relationship its just this part which is frustrating to me. I asked him if it was me he said had nothing to do with me and sometime when we argue we don't even have sex because he feels tension and doesn't want to get into that mood. OK but my question I am trying to get at is why can my fiancé ejaculate quite easily when he for one masturbates, or when we are having sex only when he see's a porn? Granted I like watching them too with him but it makes me feel ****ty in bed when that's the only time he can ejaculate... like yesterday we had sex for about 45 min and it kind of seemed like he was trying way to hard , he got hot and sweaty and stopped because he got mad he could not ***. 20 minutes goes by and he randomly puts in a porn sure enough he cums ! I feel ****ty what am I doing wrong? Now we haven't had sex since wed and he can't ejaculate just from me? Please help me and tell me is this a problem?

Could the problem be that you want sex more then he and he is under pressure because of this ? This could be the problem.

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We need you to verify your ages please. Then we can answer.

Could it be that he is addicted to porn? He can organism from watching pron but not from direct sexual contact. I suggest you confront his porn watching. This appears to have become a problem for him. Just like drugs or alcohol it is an addiction. Unless he gets professional help your relationship could be doomed to failure.

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You ALL know better than this!

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You ALL know better than this!

Yes, Synn, sorry **hiding behind curtain**. Won't do it again, but OP did say fiancée so I assumed she was of age and I know I should not assume in this case.