While doing sex I have no pian whatsoever, the problem is when he goingto stick it in at the begginning and top of my vagina I have this pain but then after is in it does not hurt until he take it out or pull away to far. I don't know what it is but I was hoping that maybe to one of you guys would have a possible answer. I am 18 years old and he is 20 years old. We do have a major difference I am 4'11 ad he is 5'11. I don't know if that could be the reason but I am a bit worried. Unfortunately, I have not ahd time to go see my gynecologist because my school and work schedule does not fit hers.

Please stop opening new threads - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/why-does-boyfriend-have-problem-staying-aroused-after-he-ejaculated-569602.html#post2769186

You say that your sex life is wonderful but you complain about pain and his failure to achieve an erection.

I'm confused - what is the wonderful part?

Is he your first sexual partner? What means of birth control are you using? Part of this could be psychological.

I am not aware - nor have I ever noticed - a connection between a person's height and sexual "equipment."

No way to know except to see a Physician.

No he is not my first sexual partner. AND THE SEX IS WONDERFUL. He does get aroused very easily but is just the second time we go for it it doesn't stay aroused. I will have to do oral for it to stay aroused. The pain starting while having sex with him after a while. But it is only when he is going to stick it in that it hurts(even if I am wet or we use lubricant).The wonderful part is that it feels good, I really like him and he makes me have an organism. The birht control that I am using is Othro Cycle low (something familiar to that). I have been taking this birth control pills since I was 14 years old. I seriously don't believe that the birth control has anything to do with this. I was just saying the height because his penis might hit hit something in my vagina and that may have cause it. I was asking in case someone knew. I really do need to go to my gyno but I have to see if I can take any day of work.

Opening new threads, what do you mean by that??

You have two questions about your sexual relationship with your partner. They should be combined.

I would suggest that you study up on male and female anatomy. You need to see a Physician.

I still don't see the "wonderful" part in all of this - pain and some sort of disfunction - ?

Okay your not in the relationship. Is a minor pain but is still a pain. They are question and maybe a would have gotten similar stories. BTW THANKS.

It could also be an involuntary muscle contraction - something your Doctor can test for.