I am a 40 year old woman and would describe my love life as a soap opera...
I have a hard time getting attached to someone and settling down... And I usually get bored very easily of men after a few month of dating them...

Anyhow, 3 years ago, I met this guy that I was head over heels in love with. And for a while we were always going out and doing things together. But, now I find that I am always bored with him, and want him to spend time with me and do the things we used to do, together. You see, for the past 1 1/2 years, we have broken up and gotten back together, many times over. And every time we do, I expect for it to be, exciting!. And, when it's not... I end it, AGAIN!.

Well now, he is starting up a new business and has even less time to do things. Funny thing is, I don't even know why I dated him, because he's really not the type of guy I would fall for. I know he still loves me. But, things are just not the same anymore and I don't know how to change it. I have been single for the past 3 months, in which we broke up, and I did not date during that time. But, I know if I started dating again, I would just go back to my old ways of getting bored with men fast and moving on to my next adrenaline rush...

Why is this?. And, can I ever just stop doing this?

Oh, and he is not the first man I have done this with, either!!

Thanks!

You are a serial dater. This will stop when you finally meet someone and fall in love. In the meantime, have fun. That's what men do!

Stay single and enjoy yourself.

Talaniman Rule - Date them all. Short, fat, skinny, or tall. 18-80, blind, cripple, or crazy!!!!!

You're asking why you're doing this.

I can't tell you why,I can only guess at your repeating some pattern you learnt when you were very young,which probably led to this fear of comittment.

If you want to go down that road,see a therapist maybe?