I've been with my boyfrind 6 months and we both really enjoy sex but I'm looking for a way to spice it up. Nothing too out there or too difficult to try. We've tried doggie style, me on top, and him on top with my legs on his shoulders, but I just relly want something new. Any ideas??

How old are you ginger?

Try getting married. Uncommitted sex is nothing compared to married monogamous committed love making. Technique and potions will never make up the difference.

Try getting married. Uncommitted sex is nothing compared to married monogamous committed love making. Technique and potions will never make up the difference.


Are you aware that it is AMHD's policy not to answer questions without knowing the age of the person asking.

Please don't confuse your morals with fact. This may very well be what you have taught/are teaching your daughter; however, I do NOT believe there is any difference between committed sex and monogamous committed love making and the level of excitement and uncommitted sex, etc. Maybe there is a difference for you.

However, your opinion is just that and assuming OP comes back and posts ages, then I'm sure there will be some comprehensive answers.

I appreciate your opinion and perhaps your experience. This is not my opinion. Research does validate my statement that married sex is better than uncommitted sex. Wish I could pull up the report at the moment. It had something to do with women needing commitment to feel safe and be able to relax and enjoy themselves. Not done by a biased group. Just the results of their research.

I appreciate your opinion and perhaps your experience. This is not my opinion. Research does validate my statement that married sex is better than uncommitted sex. Wish I could pull up the report at the moment. It had something to do with women needing commitment to feel safe and be able to relax and enjoy themselves. Not done by a biased group. Just the results of their research.

First you ignored JudyKayTee's point about waiting to know the poster's age.

Second, please do find and reference that research. There have been research studies about all sorts of things and many times they are either bogus or countered by other research. Frankly, I would find it very hard to believe the validity of such research because of the completely subjective nature of the subject.

Marriage is not the only commitment people can make to each other. If you are in a long term relationship, I would deem that as being committed wouldn't you?

CLOSED, because people cannot STOP ANSWERING until we have the OP's age.

If you want to have a DISCUSSION about married sex vs single sex--TAKE IT TO MEMBERS DISCUSSIONS.