geminisword
Apr 10, 2011, 09:00 AM
Mine is a long story but I need help
I meet this guy in 2008 while he was finishing grad school.We are both foreigners here in America.After he cleared grad school,his scholarship ended.He did not have a job so he moved in with me.I had a job then.I later conceived.All along he never mentioned his girlfriend back home.I only discovered when I was 6 months pregnant.He later lied to me that they had broken up though I knew he was lying because he constantly called her from my phone and chat the whole night.
Just after I gave birth,he got a job in California and I followed him there after a month.My fears were confirmed when I saw a receipt from western union(money transfer) that his girlfriend back home had sent to him some dollars(I guess to settle in since we didn't have any cash).When I asked him,he said she was barely assisting him and nothing much.
But later,after 5months,I learnt from his emails that he had sent her an angegment ring worth 500 dollars via courier! A month later, I conceive our second child who was born premature at 6months.Tha time,he went back home and they got married,both traditionally and legally.His wife send me a mail on that day warning me to stay away from her husband.
When he came back to America,he denied that he had married her and that she was just lying.But in an email to a friend,he was saying that he is staying with us to save money,but he will move out when his wife arrives! I think he is processing her papers now and she will be here soon.What do I do now?I do not have legal status here so I can't find a job to support myself and the kids.I can't go to court either!
*** help!
I meet this guy in 2008 while he was finishing grad school.We are both foreigners here in America.After he cleared grad school,his scholarship ended.He did not have a job so he moved in with me.I had a job then.I later conceived.All along he never mentioned his girlfriend back home.I only discovered when I was 6 months pregnant.He later lied to me that they had broken up though I knew he was lying because he constantly called her from my phone and chat the whole night.
Just after I gave birth,he got a job in California and I followed him there after a month.My fears were confirmed when I saw a receipt from western union(money transfer) that his girlfriend back home had sent to him some dollars(I guess to settle in since we didn't have any cash).When I asked him,he said she was barely assisting him and nothing much.
But later,after 5months,I learnt from his emails that he had sent her an angegment ring worth 500 dollars via courier! A month later, I conceive our second child who was born premature at 6months.Tha time,he went back home and they got married,both traditionally and legally.His wife send me a mail on that day warning me to stay away from her husband.
When he came back to America,he denied that he had married her and that she was just lying.But in an email to a friend,he was saying that he is staying with us to save money,but he will move out when his wife arrives! I think he is processing her papers now and she will be here soon.What do I do now?I do not have legal status here so I can't find a job to support myself and the kids.I can't go to court either!
*** help!