Hello,
I have been having pain for about a week now, I got fingered about 3 weeks ago it hurt then but then it went away. I don't think it's a yeast infection because no abnormal dischargee, I am to embarrass to go for help, I also started birth control about 4 weeks ago, can anyone help??

First I moved this from the Plumbing forum, since I assume you are not a building or a mechanical being. Why should you be embarrassed to go for help. You need to be examined by your OB/Gyn who is the only one who can tell if there is damage.

Someone using their hands on you can be a bit of a risky thing. The thing is if your not in a relationship with this guy then you don't know where his hands have been, his nails could have been un-cut or/and un-clean, so as scott said go and get yourself checked, better safe than sorry,