Hi. I met my girlfriend in 20th grade and dated her throughout high school. I am in college now. We were in so much love and everything was just great. Everyone told us we were going to get married and they have never seen such a great relashionship. Since Christmas or even a little before she started to be weird. About a week before I came home for spring break we got in a fight that I didn't even know the reason for. We agreed that we needed to talk when I came home and set a time. When we talked she laughed through it and finally at the end kind of got serious. We went away for the weekend and she was very weird. 3 days later she broke up with me. It has impacted me so much. I know I am young and this is the first break up I ever have but we loved each other so much. She said she lost feelings for me. I just don't see how that would happen when we were deeply in love. I have done my best of NC but 4 weeks ago she texted me and it went on for a day. Then she deleted me from Facebook and stopped talking. I was doing OK and then she emailed me Monday and we emailed the whole day and it turned bad. I don't understand why she keeps texting/e-mailing. She knows how much of a mess I am and she said she wants me to get over her and move on. She says she is happier then ever. I get so depressed during certain times. I have worked so hard and read so much of how to get over it. But everyday it will pop up in my head or I'll have a dream at night. I can't stand being this depressed and the horrible feelings I get day by day. It's affecting me in college and my health. I just have put so much work into getting over this but I still feel like my hearts ripped out. I feel like I'll never find a girlfriend etc. Does anyone have any advice? I hope I am not coming across as a nutcase. Thank you if you read all of this sorry it was so long.

Dear.. Everything happens for first time.. I have went through this phas and I want to tell you that you are going to get a girlfriend who will be happy with u.. Make yourself very busy so in night when you go to sleep.. u ll be very tired and will not think about anything.. Do the very thing what you are not able to do now.. Don't think about her and NC means No contact.. So don't reply her mail or messages.. If she is ready to come with you as same then it's okay but don't go and talk with the same girl again.. Make new friends.. listen songs.Just make yourself busy.. Take care..

Stop replying and she will leave you alone which is what she is probably trying to do any way with her acts of cruelty.

I'm sorry,and you don't come across as a nutcase,just another guy who's been hurt by a breakup.

Go real no contact-if she tries to get in touch with you,delete her messages without reading them.

Block her if you can.

And the feelings you are going through at the moment are all normal,so allow yourself to heal and move on with your own life.

Take care.

From what it sounds like, she was probably nervous BECAUSE you were "so much in love". She probably really didn't want to hurt you. Don't be in so much self pity though. She is going through the same thing right now!! Shde was probably contacting you because she wanted to still be a part of you somehow. Don't CONTACT HER ANYMORE. You are only in college. You will find another girlfriend. I bet there is one right under your nose. Just have fun and enjoy single life!! It seems like you two were attached for so long that it sort of affected you in a wrong way. Now is your time. She did the right thing by blocking you on fb. The fact that it turned bad again after talking all day is more of a reason that shows why you two should not be together. I don't know I think she did the right thing. I do hope you get over her soon though. Just go HAVE FUN!!