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mclong
Apr 5, 2011, 05:43 AM
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I been sleeping with a man for 3yrs, and just found out that he has a girlfriend. The problem is that I love him so much. I know it's wrong but I can't stop myself, plus we work together in the same office space, so we see each other all day at work. HELP me what should I do?

amicon
Apr 5, 2011, 07:30 AM
I think you know what you should do,tell the two timing jerk to get lost.

You can't stop yourself?

Of course you can;find some selfrespect and end this non relationship.

He's not your boyfriend,you're his bit on the side.

Finish it,and then be polite and unavailable at work.

mystific
Apr 5, 2011, 09:03 AM
ERROR: You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to amicon again

Seconded.. although said much politer.

talaniman
Apr 5, 2011, 09:09 AM
QUOTE by mclong;
I been sleeping with a man for 3yrs, and just found out that he has a girlfriend.
How does that happen that you were fooled for 3 years? :confused:

The problem is that I love him so much.
How do you love a guy who lied and cheated for 3 years? :confused:

I know it's wrong but I can't stop myself, plus we work together in the same office space, so we see each other all day at work. HELP me what should I do?
Do the right thing, and not keep doing the wrong thing!!!! :rolleyes: If you can't help yourself, how can you expect others to help you? :rolleyes:

Come on, at least try!! :eek:

hidden123
Apr 7, 2011, 01:20 PM
Seriously? This is a no brainer. If you're OK with being a booty call for a cheater - go right ahead. Other than that - reach within for some self respect and dignity and kick him to a curb. Good luck.