harusame
Mar 27, 2011, 11:07 AM
Hi all,
I have this kind of strange relationship with one of my colleague in the office. I am gay, and I think he knows that I am gay, because he always makes jokes about me liking boys instead of girls. He is very kind to me and spent most of his time with me instead of his long-time girlfriend (soon to be his wife though). We always had like a great time together, hanging out together just the 2 of us.
So recently both of us stayed at a hotel in the same room. He asked me about the possibility of making 3-some with a girl. But I was kind of not OK with the idea of hiring a prostitute for that reason.
In the end, We talked about sex life, mostly his. But we didn't make any moves, so it was just nothing happened.
I am kind of confused what kind of relationship do we have here? I wonder if we already cross the boundary of friendship, because you know he sometimes let me play with his leg and arm hairs, fingers.
From my observation he is straight, because visually it is women whom he is attracted to. His former sex-experience (from what he told me) are all with girls, and he never express anything with gay-impression on me.
I actually don't want any relationship, because I want to focus on my career but this feeling is killing me...
Please help me... I am confused, I wish I could just get over him
Thanks in advance
I have this kind of strange relationship with one of my colleague in the office. I am gay, and I think he knows that I am gay, because he always makes jokes about me liking boys instead of girls. He is very kind to me and spent most of his time with me instead of his long-time girlfriend (soon to be his wife though). We always had like a great time together, hanging out together just the 2 of us.
So recently both of us stayed at a hotel in the same room. He asked me about the possibility of making 3-some with a girl. But I was kind of not OK with the idea of hiring a prostitute for that reason.
In the end, We talked about sex life, mostly his. But we didn't make any moves, so it was just nothing happened.
I am kind of confused what kind of relationship do we have here? I wonder if we already cross the boundary of friendship, because you know he sometimes let me play with his leg and arm hairs, fingers.
From my observation he is straight, because visually it is women whom he is attracted to. His former sex-experience (from what he told me) are all with girls, and he never express anything with gay-impression on me.
I actually don't want any relationship, because I want to focus on my career but this feeling is killing me...
Please help me... I am confused, I wish I could just get over him
Thanks in advance