My mother & brother who were bullies to me all of my life have left me out of Dads Obituary . Will this "come around " ? Hurt but thought this just typical of them

Hopefully they will realize that what they did was wrong, and they'll correct it. You could always write your own obituary for your dad, just from you.

I don't know if I believe that what comes around goes around. No one is perfect, we all do things that hurt others, intentional or not, so that would mean karma is out to get all of us at all times.

I do believe that life is what you make it. Don't let the negative things get you down. You can't control what others do, but you can control your own actions. :)

She nailed it. Though hurtful, don't let the actions of others impact your life to a negative degree. You can write your obituary and if he was close to you... don't let anything stop you from remembering him.