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Lillilillilil
Mar 21, 2011, 11:34 AM
Hey, listen the guy I love , is suddenly showing interest in my best friend. Even though they don't talk but he comments and likes her pictures on Facebook. He tells me that she looks pretty whenever she's with me, when I meet him. Even though he doesn't talk a lot about her but he seems to be attracted to her eyes. Even though he says theyr scary he does like them. And that is obvious.
Look I know he loves me and I love him a lot too. I know my best friend for 13years and I can't talk about it with her, it'll be too weird. I need to get this out of me. If I tell me othr best friend it might be awkward?
Just tellme what to do
-.-

nutzz
Apr 13, 2011, 03:23 AM
You should ask the guy directly if he is interested in your best friend.. This would save you from an emotional trauma for if you would become too much obsessed with him and then realize that he loves your best friend it would be really painful...

sharper11
Apr 15, 2011, 10:58 AM
First, don't tell ANY of your friends about this.

Second, Hold old are you (it matters)

Third, how long have you and your BF been together?


--- You may want to ask your BF straight up if he likes your friend, and see his reaction (this is a face to face thing.. . not a text message question). I would NOT go into telling a GF "I love your friends eyes, or your friend is cute.. etc.. It's just wrong. What a great way to make the person you are in a relationship with feel insecure.

backstabed13
Apr 22, 2012, 03:06 PM
My boy friend did the same thing and he lied I asked him and he said no a week later he called me a vulture and gave my best friends a anklet a braclet and a necklace he is a total backstabber and now there hanging out and acting all cutesy right under my nose and my best friend knew I liked him