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xxromeoxx
Mar 14, 2011, 12:23 AM
I'm currently 20 years old but look 15
-_- I need advice because when talking to a girl I get way too attached too soon, and I always end up getting hurt. Also, when it comes to women I get so nervous to talk to them because all that's in my head is rejection and not knowing what to say. Any advice?

martinizing2
Mar 14, 2011, 12:56 AM
I'm currently 20 years old but look 15
-_- I need advice because when talking to a girl I get way too attached too soon, and I always end up getting hurt. Also, when it comes to women I get so nervous to talk to them because all that's in my head is rejection and not knowing what to say. Any advice?

How attached , how fast ?

Marriage proposal with suicide threat if rejected before you get to the café on the first date?:eek:

More information needed.

Everyone will get hurt at one time or another, but you got to be in the game to win it.

If you are nervous , tell them you are.
Looking 15 and being nervous could trigger
The mothering mode they all have and they
Could "help".


In reality, stop worrying.
You are young and still learning.
Be yourself , be honest... always ,
And find someone who likes what you ARE
Not what they can make you.

I can almost remember being 20.

amicon
Mar 14, 2011, 01:32 AM
One step at the time,get to know people before you start thinking in terms of commitment and happily ever after.

talaniman
Mar 14, 2011, 10:17 AM
Stop trying so hard friend, and relax and see females as people, and not partners. Rejection should never be taken personally, as its always their loss, not yours.