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Charliee_Lingo
Mar 3, 2011, 12:44 PM
I met somelad tonight, he is really cute and bi, he knows I think he is. I told him and he said I was good looking but it was a shame I was 15 and he was 18.
If I got to know him better do you think I would have a chance to get with him because he is really sweet and cute.

redhed35
Mar 3, 2011, 01:22 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/have-crush-someone-2-years-younger-help-559165.html

Is this the same guy?

At 15 he is still a child and your and adult.

Is 3 years a big age gap? At 15 and 18 yes!

There are no laws on dating,HOWEVER, there is a fine line as to what is considered sexual behaviour.

In your other thread you refer to his 'abs' and that he is 'Bi', I assume bi-sexual.

My advice walk away from this kid, because that's what he is, at 18 you're an adult.

Kids talk, parents hear then teachers find out, you could find yourself in a lot of hot water.

southamerica
Mar 3, 2011, 01:34 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/have-crush-someone-2-years-younger-help-559165.html

is this the same guy?

at 15 he is still a child and your and adult.

is 3 years a big age gap? at 15 and 18 yes!!

there are no laws on dating,HOWEVER, there is a fine line as to what is considered sexual behaviour.

in your other thread you refer to his 'abs' and that he is 'Bi', i assume bi-sexual.

my advice walk away from this kid, because thats what he is, at 18 your an adult.

kids talk, parents hear then teachers find out, you could find yourself in a lot of hot water.
Hey Red,

The OP says they are 15 and the other guy is 18.

At any rate, the age gap is still a big deal and if the 18 year old is trying to walk away because of it, he's doing a smart thing and until you are of age, you need to respect those legal boundaries.

redhed35
Mar 3, 2011, 02:05 PM
Perhaps the op can clear up any misunderstanding.

southamerica
Mar 3, 2011, 02:21 PM
perhaps the op can clear up any misunderstanding.

**** edited out info about off board contact.

To the OP: what is your exact age and the age of the guy, is this guy the same as in your other post, and if you don't mind where are you located?

These questions are important because it's hard for us to know what to encourage and discourage unless we know the legality of the situation. Thanks!

Charliee_Lingo
Mar 12, 2011, 11:31 AM
No I'm 15 he is 18, and no its someone different

ScottGem
Mar 12, 2011, 12:46 PM
he said i was good looking but it was a shame i was 15 nd he was 18.

In other words he knows you are "jail bait" and doesn't want to risk it. So walk away.