View Full Version : Is his new girlfriend in the way?
RachaelTheStar
Mar 1, 2011, 01:45 PM
My ex and I had been together for over a year and it was a very close relationship and we always talked. I wanted to take a break because I was stressed and felt I wasn't giving him enough attention. For about a week we talked back and forth we were planing to get back together but then he got a new girlfriend. They have been together over a month. I want him back but if anything just want to be friends. He has txted me before but now he just stopped. Is she in the way of him and I talking and or possibly getting back together? And how can I tell if he really cares or ever did?
redhed35
Mar 1, 2011, 01:49 PM
He's moved on, she's not in the way,he choose her to be his girlfriend.
You're the ex... hes taken,she's the girlfriend.
To heal and move on you need to start no contact, one, to heal for yourself, and two, to avoid any problems with his new girlfriend, as she may consider that in fact its you in the way of THEIR relationship.
You walked away, and he moved on.
alanad123
Mar 1, 2011, 01:57 PM
I went through the same thing not long ago and let ne tell you it only gets harder but I finally accepted that he had moved in and I moved on too. It took a while but now I've moved on Im happier and now have a new boyfriend and I feel a lot happier than I did when I was with my ex. I'm only 16 but hey. Just accept it that he has moved on an you mice on as well because you will get over him eventually .
talaniman
Mar 1, 2011, 06:36 PM
She isn't in your way, YOU are out of her way now, and his.