.oh,please,answer.I need your help very much!! it's very important for me...

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/how-understand-he-loves-not-558053.html

Are these two threads related?

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well.no ,they are not connected.I just need to know your opinions on this expression.thanks for anvance

If your in love with someone or love someone,saying the words is important but backing them up with actions is vital.

Example; a guy says he loves you but disrespects you/ cheats on you/abuses you... thats not love,its just a word.

Example 2; guy says he loves you, treats you with respect,he's honest with you,is understanding when your upset,listens to you,you both have mutual respect and understanding for each other.

Love is a two way street, in words and actions, the word love encompasses many things that need to come together for a healthy lasting relationship.

Love is like faith. It`s attesting to the reality of the matter in your heart, wittnessing it with your words, and establishing it by your actions. That`s just how I see it. Love is kindness.

Hello l:

Love is neither words nor deeds. It's an emotion. Want proof? Some people, who love, say very nasty things to the people they love. Sometimes they DO nasty things too.

excon

You don't need to 'prove' love. For example, you don't need to have sex with your boyfriend because he says that will prove that you love him.

The word 'love' gets tossed around to justify bad behaviour as excon has said, and it is tossed around as somehow justifying bad behaviour, 'I love you, that's why I bet the mortgage payment at the slots, so we could pay the bills'.

How about, 'I love you, but I'm not IN love with you', or, 'I love you but I need some space and I'm moving out for a while'. Or, 'I love you but you forced me to love someone else because of your jealousy'.

The list goes on and on. Judging by the number of questions we have about people who have been blindsided by love, unable to love, feel they aren't loved, and doubt what love means in their relationship, the definition itself seems to boil down to why the question was asked in the first place.

So, why do you ask.

I agree with Jake2008, and I didn`t mean that by `actions`. And actually as a muslim I believe that love has almost a hundred different forms, and the highest of them is worship, which is due only to The Creator. With actions concerning the natural love between a man and a woman I mean first of all marriage, because if you really love someone, and not just play with them, then you`ll honour them by establishing a family with them. Then there are things like buying flowers, smiling, calling each other with affectionate nicknames, and those little things. Then the most difficult part: after the truobles start, not to blame each other, but have mercy and forgiveness, and let the time heal the wounds, as wounds are bound to come, but to stick together, and the bonds will only be stronger, and the lives become like one life. That`s love, OK? That`s what I have with my wife, plus three kids, which are the fruits of our love, and I can tell you the more we express love (I don`t mean sexual) among ourselves, the more love do we see in kids too. Love is like a light in a candle. If you have it, and you show it so that another can light their candle too, it doesn`t reduce anything from you, but it will bring more light everywhere.

If you think you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, then you can speak about love, but if you just miss someone you just met, then it`s a crush.