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T03_Fun9u5
Feb 25, 2011, 04:40 PM
We had a great day yesterday just hanging out with friends she came up huged me heaps of times
That night she msged me saying she wants time apart she sorry just needs to think about some stuff... iloveyou
Then changes our relationship status to its complicated.. Im freaking out what do I do?

southamerica
Feb 25, 2011, 04:45 PM
The only thing you can do is give her space. Anything other than that will only serve to push her away further.

If you want clarification you should ask her, but don't pester her. If she doesn't respond to you, then let it go.

Relationships are hard and sometimes they don't make sense, just make sure you respect her wishes and respect yourself as well.

T03_Fun9u5
Feb 25, 2011, 04:49 PM
Thanks, the thing is I don't understand what happened we went ice skating last night and we were heaps close like always hugging ice skating together and I let her space with her friends to so its not like I'm crowding her.
Its just it was sudden like she didn't brake up with me just says she needs a brake I'm confused

southamerica
Feb 25, 2011, 04:58 PM
That's where it's your right to ask her for clarification. You may get an answer, but don't expect to. The most important is to just give her the space she requests.

T03_Fun9u5
Feb 25, 2011, 05:06 PM
Yea I care too much for her 2 push it and make it worse all I've done now is send her an offline Facebook message saying
I understand you you a brake I'm not going to push anything. Ill give you your time to think
Ill talk to you when your ready, I really hope everything turn out good because I've never been this close to someone before