My son has a section 39 against him for grabbing a child who was hitting his son. Now my son and his girlfriend have split up and she is refusing to let him see his son. Social services are in involved and according to his ex they have said he will have to have an assessment to determin whether he can can have unsupervised access. His ex is refusing access unsupervised and supervised. Where does my son stand

Your son has to have an anger assessment (or a general assessment) in order to have visitation with his son.

Social Services is making the rules at this point.

What State?

In the uk

I don't think that changes anything. Social services/child protective services, is making the rules based on the Order and past history.

Doesn't your son want the evaluation? Why? That's the only way to get this resolved.

He's having the assessment done, but his ex says even when he's had it done, she is still going to refuse visitation

Then he goes to Court and applies for a Court Order.

This is NOT her decision. She can say whatever she wants but it's going to matter very little UNLESS she can prove he's a danger to the child in some way.