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Farrisbueller14
Feb 19, 2011, 05:45 PM
Well about two months ago me and two of my friends got arrested at school for smoking weed at school. I convinced her that I learned my lesson and I did. But not as big as lesson I should have. I figured that if I never take drugs to school ill be good. Today I finally got to hangout with one of my friends I got caught at school with. We ****ed up bad. We shoplifted. I took a shirt and a ear ring. We got caught and arrested again. But I honestly truly learned my lesson. I'm done with everything bad. I cried for at least an hour. I just want to know what to say to my mom to let her know I honestly learned my lesson. Cause I did. Truthfully. Please help me.
coneja90001
Feb 19, 2011, 07:01 PM
There is no right or wrong answer the importance is to be honest with yourself first.If you say you are deeply sorry and you want to earn your parents trust again all you have to do is talk to them and tell them that we all make mistakes in life and that you learned from your previous consequences.Look deep down your heart and be sincere. Surely your parents would tell if you are beign honest and that you are sorry for your actions!Hope my advice is much help.Good Luck!
DoulaLC
Feb 19, 2011, 07:09 PM
Just to add to what has been said, you might also let your parents know that you will no longer be hanging out with these "friends" of yours. Do just that, and stick to it. Your actions will speak as loudly, if not louder, than your words.
Let them know that you take full responsibility for your actions, have truly learned from this recent experience, as well as a very important lesson regarding who you choose to associate with.
Fr_Chuck
Feb 19, 2011, 07:12 PM
In about a year, after not doing bad things again, you go and tell her you learned your lesson and are sorry. During that year you will show her by what you do, that you learned a lesson