What can I do to make it easyer to orgasm during sex

How old are you?

Try Kegals. You can find a how to on the internet and they are easy. I usually do mine while driving.

For some reason, do the reps puts my sex drive into overdrive, even when I am tired and in that in between of wanting sex or not. They have also made my orgasms longer.

Every girl is different, so try some new positions. From my own experience and what I've heard form friends, doggy style is not a good position for a strong orgasm. Try both of you laying on your side with both pentration and manual stimulation, seasoned to taste, of course. Find out what you like and go for it, think about what turns you on, do it and don't let it go, if you need more mental stimulation. Think constantly about how good if feels, reaaly pump yourself up and don't be a passive lover. Sex back. Be aggressive and love every minute of it.

Become emotionally involved.(Being in love helps if you need equal mental and physical stimulation. Knowing that you're in a stable relationship will make you more comfortable and less inhibited. There also isn't those first time fumble in the sheets that can kill an orgasm)

Oh and don't change positions alot(unless it really floats your boat)or be self conscious. Bumming out over non-shaved legs can kill a growing orgasm.

A tip not for the timid---
Also try ******* with your legs together and lay on your back while your partner stimulates. If you are like me and arch a lot, tie your ankles together. Last time I did that I orgamsed three times longer than usual. It was like the orgasm had nowhere else to go, so it kept reverberating around in there instead of melting away.

Good help would also be a suggestion, so if you're solo, add a partner that your comfortable with, not just hot(it might be me, but most ungodly hot guys I know just assume that they are good at sex but really aren't, so keep an eye out). If you're gay and you haven't tried penetration (yes some lesbians don't like it) go for it.

Because this is the ADULT SEXUALITY board with posting restrictions, we need the op's age before we can answer his/her question.

Gender would also be helpful.

Thank you.

The first keyword is lesbian... so I'm thinking female. And, from what I have read, only the people who are asked their age are the ones who sound inexperienced and ask simple questions. All the others are answered on judgement calls. Inexperience is not age determinitive. You're welcome.

southern_raised, please do not answer a question on the Adult Sexuality board unless the age of the op is known.

While we may go by clues on how long the relationship has lasted, marriage, etc. we do ask for age before answering questions when there is little or no information given such as this 'question. You might be surprised to know how many 13-16 year olds ask about orgasms.

Apparently you read a different post than I did because 'lesbian' is nowhere in the op's post or the title.


What can I do to make it easyer to orgasm during sex

'Keywords' are not always accurate.

Editted to add the word 'not'-oops.

Southern_raised, we have rules on this site. One of the rules is that people posting in this forum must be 18 or older. We must ask the age if it's not included in the post. No answers will be given until the OP states his/her age.

This is a rule, not a suggestion. If you cannot or will not adhere to the rules then it's best that you stay out of the forums that have restrictions.

If you continue to ignore the rules you will be reported and possibly removed from the site.

We welcome you to AMHD, but we have rules for a reason. Like any other rules anywhere else, we will not allow them to be broken.

I hope you understand.

Welcome to AMHD.

Nope, we read the same post.

Its right under the question and above the button that says add your answer. I saw it when I clicked the button. It was hard to miss. Keywards may not be 100 percent, but I'm sure that a staight male would be very unlikely to have lesbian as a keyword. So I say that it is accurate enough.

There are also a lot of 20, 30, and 40 year olds that ask about orgasms as well. And I'm not saying that nobody on this site asks for age, I'm just saying that it is asked inconsistantly and in a way that might insult the poster. For example--

I'm sure that if I was 40, intersted in improving my love life, and the first thing I hear as an answer about orgasm is a question about my age, as if my question was not adult enough, I would turn my embarrassed self around, go to Amazon, and get a book. I probably would not even answer with my age and I think a lot of people would not as well.

This question needs no additional information. It asks what it needs to ask about sex and I understand if the poster is weary about putting all the details of their marriage or relationship in a post. For this question, information on the relationship is irrelevant. Relationships are not needed for orgasms, be them 13, 16 or 92.


I will, however, take your suggestion. ;)

Apparently you read a different post than I did because 'lesbian' is nowhere in the op's post or the title.

I'm not seeing the word lesbian either. It must be another glitch. It happened in the math forum a while ago. The Op posted, asked for help, no info was given.

A few of the math experts asked for the problem. One poster gave an indepth answer. The Experts were confused, because they saw nothing in the OP to give any sort of answer.

It turns out it was a new skin glitch. All people on Go could see the complete post. Those on the old skin couldn't.

Must be what's going on here. We can't see the whole post.

I'll report it, see if anyone can do anything about it.

Southern_raised.

Please look at this page and note the **Over 18 Only**

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/

*Edit*

Where in the world did you see the word lesbian in the OP? Please quote it, because it's quite invisible to me.

It looks like it the word 'lesbian' was in the 'keywords'/'tags' that the GO interface has available which aren't on the older interface that we use.

Back to the op, please give your age and more information to help us know what advice to give you.

I trudged over to GO and saw this under the OP's question:

Keywords: lesbian, video, gay, girls, pics, women, asian, sex video, galleries, adult

I trudged over to GO and saw this under the OP's question:

Keywords: lesbian, video, gay, girls, pics, women, asian, sex video, galleries, adult

Ah, the fairly common Keywords for the topics on Adult Sexuality.

I agree with cat... back to the op.

I agree with cat... back to the op.

Until the OP comes back and provides his/her age, there's no further info we can provide.

I have already explained this once AND got an argument in return - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/pain-intercorse-556144.html.

I have already explained this once AND got an argument in return - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/pain-intercorse-556144.html.

I saw that. I notice that in that thread Southern also said she'd comply to the rules. I guess that was just lip service. :(

This is the right document right? The one with the rule that I have to ask for age.

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The terms of service state no such rule that I must ask for age either.

Not only do I not see where it says I have to ask for age, but the language suggests that it is the sites job to remove unwanted posts, not the answerers job to question the poster.

If this is not the right document, then I bow, admit defeat, and profoundly agologize. Please show me what I should read so that I may act accordingly, cause, from what I have read, the rule you speak of is no rule. It is a custom and a curtesy. A custom that I intended to follow. Unfortunately, the unprofessionalism of the sites upkeep means that I will just not post to this site.

If you want to make it a rule, put it in the file. Then enforce it. Not the other way around. If it is a rule, have it where ALL may find and read it. Again, if I am wrong, I apologise for the discurtesy that I have afforded to all participants. I admire the 18+ rule, in fact that was the reason I signed up, but only the one that was provided.

Either way, work on those glitches. A poster should know exactly what they are dealing with before they are held accountable. That information should be easy to find and clear. In this case it was neither. I went looking for the over 18 rules list and found no rule as you have stated. I followed the link posted by one of the other posters and still did not find such a rule. I did not mean for this to become an argument and will remove myself. Please fix your site.

Good luck in all your paths!!

Tell you what, Southern_raised.

You just post here that YOU are willing to take ALL liability for giving sexual advice to a minor, and we'll stop bugging you about asking the age of the OP.

Not willing to do that? Then ABIDE BY THE RULE OF ASKING.

The site refuses to be liable for giving sexual advice to minors.

So... you are now responsible for ANY liability that comes from answering the OP before we have an age in Adult Sexuality.

IF I don't get to your posts and delete them first.

It would be nice of Southern-raised also used quotes when she quotes something. I think that's mentioned in the rules, too.

I had to read this twice to see what is the quote and what is her defense.

I'm wondering about HER age with the endless use of the word "chick," "ya" instead of "you," different info on different threads.

Can it be school break already?

Oh come on guys...

Southern_raised just started posting on the boards as of THIS month. So clearly she knows more then Alty and Judy who have both been members since 2007 and Synnen who has been a member since 2006.

So we will just let Southern run the show and dictate to everyone else how it's going to be.

PFFT! Clueless.

To the OP, we are going to need a little more information to help understand you. Such as, has this always been an issue?