View Full Version : This boy like me but I don't! Help
shelima
Feb 16, 2011, 04:49 PM
Okay so this guy I'm my school told his friends he liked me. I was having lunch with my friends when his friends approached me and told me. I Don't like him he's like in this crew that pisses me off and I dislike the way he acts. I don't find him cute he's just there he's not someone I will ever dream of being with #just saying and he Likes me BUt I don't and it just makes me annoyed, angry when I think about it *** help me I don't want to talk to him because I know he will tell his other 'crew pple' and then they will start buggin' me. Its just disgusting thinking about him. Ps I'm not mean but he liking me is what annoys me and makes me have this awful feeling ps I'm 15
joypulv
Feb 16, 2011, 04:54 PM
When you are older you will look back on this and wonder why it was even a problem.
But as a teen we often feel sort of unsure of when to take a stand, speak our minds, make our own decisions, and say yes or no.
In this case, it's very simple: you don't have to tell anyone that you find him unattractive or worse, just say sorry, not my type, not interested.
If anyone persists, say drop it, leave me alone, mind your own business.
If it still won't stop, try diversion. Say that you have a huge crush on someone but you will never ever tell.
shelima
Feb 16, 2011, 05:02 PM
Well I'm not saying he's ugly I'm just saying he is not my type... and I seriously am not interested. Have you ever meet sm1 that you just hate or dread?? Rite now I'm not ready for any bf/gf stuff I don't want to engage myself in any relationship. I'm just going to ignore and tell his friends or maybe him NO its not going to work or NO I'm interested in sm1 else *which I'm not*
Thanks :)
joypulv
Feb 17, 2011, 02:07 AM
I had a situation that is a little similar... roommates and I had a big party and someone announced to me that he had brought 'someone for me to meet who he knew I would like.' First of all I wasn't looking for anyone, second of all I didn't like him not getting my permission (which I wouldn't have given), third the guy totally wasn't my type. It all happened so fast that I didn't have time to disguise the look on my face and the poor guy was really hurt, I think. I think I even just turned and walked away. And this was when I was about 30!