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trikstar12
Feb 5, 2011, 05:44 PM
I like this girl... I've knon her for a year now. Whenever I see her I just get all nervous and my mind just blanks out... every time I see her it ends up awkardly :( can someone help me??

ITstudent2006
Feb 5, 2011, 06:00 PM
This is natural man! When a guy is in the vicinity of a truly beautiful woman, we start to question everything about us and the environment around us. Do I look good, do I smell good, what do I say, will that sound stupid, etc..

As weird as this sounds... don't do anything. Be yourself, whether she likes you back is besides the point.

Would you rather be fake and have her like you (then she'll find out later, dump you etc.. ) or
Be yourself and see what happens.

great1
Feb 7, 2011, 07:12 AM
Ok you known her for a year now. What are you scared for , if she mean a lot to you then you would talk to her. If you let your fear get the BEST of you , how are you going to apporce other females like MAN up and face it. But before you just jump into whatever you want to do with her then get to know her because that's the only thing that will get yaw close. Try hanging out with her as a friend. Be her friend first then see what happens from there. If you don't face your fear then just know that you won't get the girl!

ITstudent2006
Feb 7, 2011, 07:21 AM
Ok you known her for a year now. What are you scared for , if she mean alot to you then you would talk to her. If you let your fear get the BEST of you , how are you going to apporce other females like MAN up and face it. But before you just jump into whatever you want to do with her then get to know her b/c thats the only thing that will get yaw close. Try hanging out with her as a friend. Be her friend first then see what happens from there. If you don't face your fear then just know that you won't get the girl ! ! ! ! ! !

Great1 has a good point- You have known her for awhile. Use wha you already know to start a conversation. I have found that the hardest part talking to a girl is the starting conversation. Don't use lame pickup lines or jokes (unless she's into that :))