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GirlPower101
Jan 29, 2011, 11:01 AM
Heyyy :)
I really need some help

I am going out with this boy but I also really like this other guy and he likes me. I love me boyfriend but I'm worried that I might have more feelings for this other guy. I don't want to hurt any of them.. what should I do ? Xx

talaniman
Jan 29, 2011, 12:48 PM
When you are confused, then just think of what the right thing to do is, and let me steer you in the right direction, treat your boyfriend like you want to be treated, and ask yourself, what you would want him to do in your situation. Give to him what you expect from him.

As to the other guy, we humans are always being attracted to one another, no matter if you are married, or just in a relationship. Its natural to have feelings for others, and you have no control as to what you feel, or who you have feelings for. You do control what you do about those feelings,

My advice is to stay within the boundaries of what you consider good behavior.

Devorameira
Jan 29, 2011, 04:31 PM
Tal's right. If you treat people with respect (like you should want for yourself), you can never go wrong.

JustinRED
Jan 29, 2011, 06:44 PM
I agree with the two answers above. However, I'd like to add my opinion on this. If you are even considering that this guy may be better for you than your current boyfriend-it may mean one of two things. The first is that you are not happy and the second is that he is not happy. If your guy is treating you like gold and you still can have feelings for someone else than maybe you need to appreciate the one you have more because you could be throwing away the best thing you have and never get it back. If you feel like you're treating your guy good and he doesn't appreciate it then it may be time to move on and make yourself happy. If you choose to move on and you are certain that it's the right thing to do for everyone because even if you get back together, things can never truly be the same. Then make sure you let your boyfriend off easy and don't drag him through the dirt for another guy. Don't try to tell him you may get back together one day, or you just want to see how things go and maybe.. NONE of that! Guys hate when women put them on hold or offer them the excuse of friendship! Love is about holding on the good things you got, and letting go of the bad things you don't need in your life.. so figure out which one you have now.