I'm trying to find an older movie... there's 4 or 5 brothers, and ones gay, and one's a druggie, and the mother believes that the gay one has a specal power to heal people. Uhm... theirs a scene where they're at one sons wedding, and the gay son gets caught with another guy, and causes a comotion. The title is the 5 sons first letter of their names, initals. And the gay son breaks the fathers favourite record, and the end scene is where the father gets a new one.I only watched it once on TV when I was younger, but I remember it and loved it.

C.R.A.Z.Y. (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0401085/)