lexibaby14566
Jan 19, 2011, 06:18 PM
Well I previously missed my period about 5 days ago. And I took two pregnancy test and they both automatically came up positive. My boyfriend and I want to keep the baby, but I'm EXTRA scared. I can't tell my mom. But I need to go to the doctor so I can know how far along I am. Do I have to go to plan parent hood with my mom.
My cousins 18.
qewwd
Jan 19, 2011, 06:29 PM
You must think it seriously. Before you give birth to your baby, you must think those questions. Do you have the ability to take care of little baby? Because you are a baby to your parents. Do you both have jobs to support your own family and will you be married with each other? And so on..
allison713
Jan 29, 2011, 12:34 PM
I'm not sure if planned parenthood requires your parents to go with you, but I can almost guarantee they will need guardian permission to perform anything on you, and your cousin is not your guardian. Also, how are you expecting to hide a baby from your parents? Whether you think you will or not you are going to need their support to raise the child. Maybe you could find a job, though it is getting more difficult to find a job when you aren't 18, but who is going to watch the baby and where are you going to live? There is a lot that you need to plan in the financial aspect. You also need to take care of yourself. People seem to be disillusioned and think that a baby is conceived, a baby grows, and then it's born. You have to eat the right food, make sure you have enough of the right vitamins, because any vitamin deficiency can cause a disorder or physical underdevelopment of your child.
Talk to your parents, think in 9 months or less they are going to know anyway, they can help you now before you make life-changing mistakes.