I'm 14 years old and Ive got a major friend problem... My friend and I had a fight a while ago.. Like somewhere near Halloweeen. We kind of made up.. But I can tell she still doesn't like me as much.. We had a sleepover on Saturday and had A TON of fun... Monday comes around and she ignores me, and is a TOTAL ***** to me. I try to hard to be her friend and she totally blows me of... I really hate that I keep trying and wish I would just give up... But I've lost someone really imortant to me this summer and I can't lose another friend... But she's really shady... My birthday is this Friday and all of the sudden she can't sleepover and I'm having 2 other firneds over... But she is just sooo ****ing annoying! She annoys me and I swear there are times I want ot kill her... But I can't hurt her.. I'm afraid... What the hell should I do? >:(

Okay, First of all, Hunny. ;) Anounceing that you want to kill somebody on the internet, probably isn't such a good idea. TeeHee (I won't tell anyone, Promise ;) ) Anyway, about your friend... It's tough to lose someone close to you, but everybody goes through it. My advise to you is to sit down with your friend and tell her what's up, tell her that you feel that she still hates you. Sit and talk for a while FACE TO FACE (Not over the phone, and not texting) and maybe you guys will work things out. Otherwise, give her space, and maybe she'll come to realize that she doesn't want to lose you as a friend either.

You have a good time with your other friends and leave her alone. When she gets over whatever she has, she will let you know. You can't just force her to talk, listen, or anything else.

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If this is the same friend as befre its not worth it yo will find many mre friends who will respect you et forgive you for your mistakes. If this is another friend then yes just sit down with her and let her get your emotions out because if not she will just continue what she's doing now and then won't be able to keep this friendship.