View Full Version : Should I keep dating him or not? Please help!
xXmisswigglesXx
Jan 6, 2011, 07:18 PM
We have been dating for about 2 months, I mean he is a really sweet and caring guy I probably couldn't ask for anyone better. But there's just something about him that just doesn't make me get the butterflies in my stomach, thinking about him all the time, and head over heels. I like him and then I don't, but of course I don't want to break his heart cause I know how it feels someone saying that they really care about you but then they really don't. I liked him from the beginning but it's all just fading away I have no clue what to do ,PLEASE HELP! :(
Reasons
Jan 6, 2011, 07:22 PM
I guess from reading that... it tells me that you, yourself aren't ready for a relationship yet... don't let him stick around and have high hopes of you wanting him... let him know how you feel... best option is give him some time, were it actually makes you realise who he is... if you do need him... maybe you don't... or maybe u 2 are just made to be friends... other than that it isn't good making a him believe that you are feeling the same way as he is when really there's a dark side... good luck.. hope it helped
Enigma1999
Jan 6, 2011, 07:23 PM
What was it about him that attracted you to him in the first place?
Who pursued who?
I wish
Jan 7, 2011, 11:13 AM
Feelings change over time. Not all couples end up happily married forever.
If you really did lose your feelings for him, then you're better off letting him go now, rather than waiting longer. If you waited longer to break up, it's not fair to either of you. He would be in a relationship with someone who doesn't really like him and you're stuck in a relationship whom you don't really feel the same way about.
yoga.gal
Jan 7, 2011, 01:24 PM
If you're not really 'feeling it' with him and you are already having doubts about him after only 2 months I think it would be only fair to let him go.
It's OK to not feel strongly about him... yes he sounds great on paper but you can't help it if you don't fancy someone as much as you wish you could.
Think of it this way... it will be upsetting for him if he really likes you but it would be so much worse if you stay with him only to leave him down the road for someone who does tick all your boxes.