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UTasteGoodToMe
Jan 3, 2011, 09:03 PM
Okay so here's the story I met this guy a school we used to hang out tell jokes and stuff but I always thought I never really meant something to him... time passed and he got a girlfriend and it hurt I must say... so badly I felt like drowning and so one of these days we both got invited to a party except that her girlfriend didn't went... we were okay but I guess I drank too much but I wasn't drunk and we started playing ''Spin the bottle''he was out the came because he has a girlfriend and then we made an agreement that what happens here stays here so this girl had to choose who I had to kiss and she choosed him! But I didn't have to give him a peck I had to make out I was NOT SOBER AT ALL so after that happened they started playing truth or dare... my brother came to pick me up and he told me before I leave ''Do You Want Me To Take This Seriously'' ''Let Me Help You ,I hold your bag'' and I was like ''No. Don't take it seriously'' but now I FEEL SO GUILTY.even thought I never really liked his girlfriend and she used to bully me in middle school... but I guess is not fair for her... I Don't KNOW WHAT TO DO and worst of all my crush's brother is in love with me and I'm in serious problems

ITstudent2006
Jan 3, 2011, 09:26 PM
He's taken, leave him alone. I only hope he has the nads to tell his g/f. Being drunk is not an excuse for infidelity. No matter the age of the persons or the age of the relationship.

UTasteGoodToMe
Jan 3, 2011, 11:28 PM
Thanks though... but he's the one who won't stop sending me inbox or texts or bb messages I told him it was just a game but he says he's madly in love with me since he met me but I told him it was not right and that I don't love him even though I do

ITstudent2006
Jan 3, 2011, 11:45 PM
Whether he is initating it or not its in your best interest to walk away and tell him so.

Alty
Jan 4, 2011, 12:42 AM
Ask him if he'd like his emails to be sent to his girlfriend.

If he really wanted a relationship with you he'd break up with the current girlfriend. He hasn't, which is a very clear way of telling you that he's not that interested in being with you.

Besides, would you really want a guy that would cheat?

Just tell him to leave you alone and then move on.