It feels like I have something in there but I have cleaned it out and still nothing, its huring bed too

Go to the doctor.

First off stop shoving q-tips in there. That alone can cause major irratation and most people do use q-tips tooo deep and can even injure your ear drum. I would make a mixture of 1 part warm water and 1 part hydrogen peroxid. Have some one help you put a couple drops in your ear and lay with that ear up for 10 minutes then turn over onto a towel and repeat with other ear. Has helped me and was one of those things my mom did for me and it worked. It could also be a ear infection but the drops won't hurt just might save you a trip to the doc.