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Annabeth18
Jan 2, 2011, 12:16 AM
Hi! Thanks for reading this... I hope you'll be able to helping out. My problem is actually a one-of-a-kind issue... I have three best friends who are really loyal and whom I really really like. Unfortunately, they don't happen to be best friends with each other. I often have to hear complaints from one of them about the other... and trust me, even though I like to gossip, I hate gossiping about my friends... I don't know what to do! I want us all to be a foursome... a close foursome... I want my friends to like each other as much as I like them! Please can you give me some ideas? Thank you so much for taking your time..

adviceishere
Jan 4, 2011, 07:28 AM
When I was about 14 or so I moved away from my best friends, whom I've been best friends with now 20 years! Well when moved I met other friends and today I also class one of them my best friend the past 9 years now and they are "friends", by this is mean they've went out together on they're own at times without me being there and they've had fun but they've never gotten close even though I've tried, fact is some people just don't get on in life no matter how hard you try get them close, your blessed with 3 best friends which will mean you'll always have them in your life, if they can't get along then that's not your fault nor is it your business to "make" them be friends, when they talk about each other to you then change the subject and don't listen to it and in time people will know that Annabeth is a thrustworthy loyal friend to have and you'll have more friends than you can handle haha so basically just look after yourself enjoy each of your friends on your own or together but just don't get involved with their problems that they've got with each other. Just keep being you and keep being loyal. Sorry if I rambelled on there haha I hope I've made some kind of sense :)

Annabeth18
Jan 5, 2011, 04:38 AM
@Adviceishere- I wasn't able to use the 'comment' option, so I just wrote this as an answer- Thank you so much! :) It was really nice of you to take your time and help, I still wish I could get them together, but your right, I need to be thankful I have friends at all.. thnku, really :)

adviceishere
Jan 12, 2011, 09:26 AM
Well your friends are lucky to have one like you and there will be many more to come :)

Annabeth18
Jan 16, 2011, 03:22 AM
:)