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Boo22
Dec 29, 2010, 05:17 PM
I have been at my boyfreind's house for the past 3 days. He then when I wasn't over there we talked on the phone, then today when I called him he said he thinks we talk too much. I called later and he told me he would call me later because he was talking to his ex. I was OK with it then, but when I called him later he was still talking to her. So I called her and she said look you don't need to be jealous you talk to him all of the time and spent the night over there the other night and I told her that I am not jealous (which I'm not). I just think she needs to talk to her own boyfriend and not mine. THen I called her boyfriend and he said he was OK with it. Well I guess I am kind of jealous will anybody help me or tell me what to do because I love him with all of my heart and never want to let him go. This is the 3rd thime we have dated. We are going skating Friday at a lock down and his ex is going to be there with her boyfreind because her boyfriend is my boyfriend's best friend just somebody tell me what to do and quick pleaseeeee!!

Lilmans1this
Dec 30, 2010, 04:47 AM
Well, First off you have to watch the ex's considering the fact they were lovers or in love at 1 time, which means they still could have feelings for each other, Another thing to consider is a choice either her or you cause he can't have both, put him in a choice situation, see what he does, but don't and I repeat don't get upset if he chooses the other, and well being his best friend is with her then if he isn't a backstabber then he won't want her because of the respect he has for his friend then again he might be giving her tips about him, give him a bit of space don't croud him and best time to confront him is when he's fully rested and has ate this way you avoid argueing, hope this helps

Jessicacn
Dec 30, 2010, 05:00 AM
Complication only makes headache. I suggest to get it over.but I know you may not give it up because you have feeling for him..

irisosk
Jan 2, 2011, 06:44 PM
Well you should never have gone behind his back and called both his ex girlfriend and her boyfriend. Guys don't respond well to crazy jelous behaviour. If you had a problem with him talking to her you should have talked to him about him and said that you weren't comfortable with him talking to her on the phone. Three days of talking isn't really that much ,id get it if you talked every hour of every waking moment of the day hed feel sufficated as well would you if he called you all the time. Just try to play it cool and relax a little , give him some breathing room. But then when you say that this is the third time you've dated, wasn't there a reason all the other times failed and shouldn't you have learned what was wrong those times? Me and my girls only have one rule about boyfriends , never go back it ended for a reason !