View Full Version : What are my rights as the father?
fortyler
Dec 28, 2010, 11:36 AM
fortyler
Dec 28, 2010, 11:45 AM
I signed my son's birth cert when he was born 4yrs ago. We have since broken up and his mother is crazy. She is with an abusive boyfriend and on drugs. I did call DCFS, they did an investigation and put everyone is drug and parenting councling. She then moved, and keeps moving. When I start to close in on a location, she moves again. I do not know where my son lives or have anyway to contact them. I pay a lot in child support everyweek, but never get to see my son. Now there are rumors that I may not be father. If I do a paternity test and I am not the father what rights do I have. Also, if I am, how can I get visitation with my son??
smoothy
Dec 28, 2010, 11:55 AM
Should have gotten a DNA test before you signed it. 4 years later its going to be a LOT harder. What state do you life. Hopefully its not Virginia... because they will make you pay until they reach adulthood even if DNA test prove they aren't yours.
I know two guys sitting in prison in VA (for several years now) for refusing to pay support on children their now ex-wives had with other men during affairs that led to their divorces (DNA tests proved they were not their children).
smoothy
Dec 28, 2010, 12:01 PM
Duplicate thread to
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family-law/signed-birth-cert-4-yrs-ago-am-not-sure-am-father-what-rights-538384.html
Moderator can they be merged?
fortyler
Dec 28, 2010, 12:53 PM
WOW! No I am in FL thank God! At the time there was no question I thought. Turns out she had been seeing other people she just told me this a few weeks ago.
cdad
Dec 28, 2010, 02:08 PM
Duplicate thread to
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family-law/signed-birth-cert-4-yrs-ago-am-not-sure-am-father-what-rights-538384.html
Moderator can they be merged?
Done. Threads merged.
this8384
Dec 28, 2010, 02:13 PM
I signed my son's birth cert when he was born 4yrs ago. We have since broken up and his mother is crazy. She is with an abusive boyfriend and on drugs. I did call DCFS, they did an investigation and put everyone is drug and parenting councling. She then moved, and keeps moving. When I start to close in on a location, she moves again. I do not know where my son lives or have anyway to contact them. I pay alot in child support everyweek, but never get to see my son. Now there are rumers that I may not be father. If I do a paternity test and I am not the father what rights do I have. Also, if I am, how can I get visitation with my son???
Was a court order entered after you signed the paternity acknowledgment? Were you awarded visitation with the child?
Outside of the legal aspect of this, let me ask you something: what do you want out of this? Do you WANT to be the child's father or are you looking to cut ties if you are not the biological parent?