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tdeshannon
Dec 26, 2010, 10:31 AM
I met a guy a few months ago at a social gathering. We talked for a long time and hit it of immediately. He shared something's about his lie with me. We kept in contact but the day we we're suppose to go out, I fell asleep. I waited a week to contact him via text and he was very angry. So I didn't try to contact him anymore until 5 weeks ago. He seemed happy to hear from me and we went out. We went to a bar/lounge where he introduced me to some of his friends. The next time we went out we went to a bar/lounge then we went to his place and he made love to me.? That surprised me. Then I invited him to my house and he seemed pretty comfortable. He wanted to cuddle and did not initiate sex. I did. Again he made love to me caressing me, kissing me and stroking my hair. And he fell asleep with his hand on my thigh and his leg wrapped around my leg. The problem is that if I don't call or text him first he won't call or text me. He's giving me mixed signals... Heeelllppp!

tickle
Dec 27, 2010, 04:01 AM
I don't think he is giving you mixed signals at all. I think you are possibly being used for a quick role in the hay and not reading those signals correctly.

Krymej
Dec 28, 2010, 04:35 AM
I agree with Tickle above..

Don't you think it would be better to break things of here with this guy instead of pursuing him further?
That doesn't sound to me like a guy that is really interested in you. He sounds more interested in his own needs an desires and you don't deserve to be used like this, you deserve much more affection than that from someone
You gave this guy what he wanted and the more you text and call it is inviting him to use you ever more... put this one down to experience.

When he got angry the first time that's not really a cool way to behave with a new love potential.
It shows some EGO and self esteem issues on his part,

I wish you all the best