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joker122
Dec 15, 2010, 08:03 PM
I'm duarte I'm 18 years old and I'm confused about my relationship between me and my friend.
I haven't had an official girlfriend in years because I started thinking
About dating guys. My friend doesn't know that I'm bi but I'm pretty sure he knows that I'm somewhat different that he's other firend. I mean we talk about everything even masturbation we talk about when and where he does it and about how big our ****s are. Till this date I haven't seen him with a girlfriend and that makes me wonder about his sexuality,he is not ugly and he does talk to girls but more on a friendly way rather than flirting. I think about him a lot I might be having a crush on him. It's just weird I know a lot of things that make think he might be bi as well but I don't know. I also want to know why I can't get a guy to like me. Is it because I act manly?

talaniman
Dec 16, 2010, 10:23 AM
Crushes come and go, as does curiosity. Seems if your friends you can talk about what's important to you. Hey if you can't talk, then what kind of friends are you? Not very good, so be afraid to honestly express yourself, and never have your questions answered, or get a friend you are not afraid to share your secrets with.

Or face your fears, and find out exactly how good a friend he really is, before you share all your secrets. At least tell him your bi.

TheNanman
Dec 16, 2010, 08:25 PM
Completely with Talaniman here. In a friendship, if you can't share almost anything with a friend (disregarding some things that would possibly get you in legal trouble), then you're not as good of friends as you think.

I know my best friend and I tell each other everything. Do we always agree, or like what the other one says? Not at all, but we get past it. Just put it out there, see what happens.