Kristy40
Jan 9, 2007, 12:38 PM
Hey everyone,
Just wanting some feedback.
I'm 30 years old dating a 40 yr old for the past 15 months. In my previous relationship my boyfriend and I had a lot of sex. In the current one, it happens about 2 times a month. He only has an orgasm if I pleasure him orally. I don't think my boyfriend is physically attracted to me. I have never felt that way in any other relationship but this one. I eventually found out that he was more attraced to another race in which women were short and petite. (prefer not mention the race).
We are such great friends and I know he loves me, I'm actually OK not having the sex (not meaning I don't like it though!)as I will just masturbate but my insecurities are driving me insane as to whether he is truly being satisfied. I have asked him and he says that he is TOTALLY attracted to me and there is not problem. My intuition tells me otherwise.
Any feedback is appreciated.
Thanks everyone.
Just wanting some feedback.
I'm 30 years old dating a 40 yr old for the past 15 months. In my previous relationship my boyfriend and I had a lot of sex. In the current one, it happens about 2 times a month. He only has an orgasm if I pleasure him orally. I don't think my boyfriend is physically attracted to me. I have never felt that way in any other relationship but this one. I eventually found out that he was more attraced to another race in which women were short and petite. (prefer not mention the race).
We are such great friends and I know he loves me, I'm actually OK not having the sex (not meaning I don't like it though!)as I will just masturbate but my insecurities are driving me insane as to whether he is truly being satisfied. I have asked him and he says that he is TOTALLY attracted to me and there is not problem. My intuition tells me otherwise.
Any feedback is appreciated.
Thanks everyone.