When I plugged my ear buds in they arnt the reg iPod ones but I went on YouTube look at my vids from my subs and then I could hear sound out of both my iPod touch and earbuds

Try a different set of ear buds. When you plug in the ear-buds the 1/8 inch connector should make contact in the jack and the analogue output should go the ear-buds and not the speaker it is possible the tip of the connector is not shaped quite right and causing the connection to no be fully broken to the internal speaker or the jack could be damaged