anapetkova
Dec 12, 2010, 02:53 AM
HI,
I would really appreciate if you could give me some advice, cause I am really confused. I have been with my husband for seven years, 2 1/2 in marriage and we have 2 year old child. I was always trying to build this perfect picture marriage, taking care of our child, he never lift a finger about anything, never really helped me about anything, I did everything by myself, we always had fights about these things, but since they never resolved, I just continued to do theim alone, just for the sake of not fighting. We somehow drifted apart, but I was always saying, it is just a period, having a small child etc. Then I started working, and met a colleague, for six months we were just hanging and talking, he is also married, unhappily. Then when I left that job, we became closer and started seeing each other. We came to the love you stage, which really scares me, since he started talking about leaving our spouses. I am really confused, first since I was always against affairs, I was always saying that an affair is the biggest disrespect, now my husband is giving me the attention I wanted, but I have someone else on my mind, who is also giving me attention and making me feel like never before. I don't know what to do or think, I don't want to leave my husband, that is not an option for me, I want to make things right with him, but I can't stop thinking about my colleague?
Please give me an advice what to do?
I would really appreciate if you could give me some advice, cause I am really confused. I have been with my husband for seven years, 2 1/2 in marriage and we have 2 year old child. I was always trying to build this perfect picture marriage, taking care of our child, he never lift a finger about anything, never really helped me about anything, I did everything by myself, we always had fights about these things, but since they never resolved, I just continued to do theim alone, just for the sake of not fighting. We somehow drifted apart, but I was always saying, it is just a period, having a small child etc. Then I started working, and met a colleague, for six months we were just hanging and talking, he is also married, unhappily. Then when I left that job, we became closer and started seeing each other. We came to the love you stage, which really scares me, since he started talking about leaving our spouses. I am really confused, first since I was always against affairs, I was always saying that an affair is the biggest disrespect, now my husband is giving me the attention I wanted, but I have someone else on my mind, who is also giving me attention and making me feel like never before. I don't know what to do or think, I don't want to leave my husband, that is not an option for me, I want to make things right with him, but I can't stop thinking about my colleague?
Please give me an advice what to do?