This time last year, I had a huge crush on one of the boys in my grade and had done for several months. I asked him out and he said yes! We dated for about three months before he told me it was best for us to just be friends. I wasn't too upset as I was planning to eventually dump him. I've recently made a new best friend and she told me she had a crush on my ex! I wasn't too bothered because he only dates girls he really likes and knows well. After weeks of begging, he's finally said yes. I'm not really into him anymore but I'm so upset and jealous. All she goes on about is herself and my ex, and I'm really sad because I don't want to loose my ex-boyfriend as a friend or my new BFF... I really don't know what to do! Please help! :(

If you're not dating him any more, he's not yours to be jealous of. Just give it time, and either they will break up, or they will be happy together.

You had a lucky escape! If you'd have stayed with him it only would have been wrong. Try stating to your friend that the subject is still a bit tetchy, so you would rather she didn't discuss it with you. I would have thought she would have been a bit more thoughtful in the first place seeing as he is your ex. They probably won't last and if they do, it gets easier over time provided you don't dwell on it. You won't be in education forever, so you will get away :)

Hey chill out. Are you in love with your ex? If you are then get over it. People break up for a reason and 2 exes getting back together is the absolute worst. So be happy that you guys are not together anymore and also be happy for your friend. Put yourself in her shoes and think. Just don't do anything. Mostly the days when you are at your worst are the days where in you make the most progress. So give him up. Again he's not yours to be jealous of but if you aernt happy about your situtation talk to your best friend. Tell her that it hurts you when she on about the ex. Also make her understand that the only reason you are doing this is because you don't want to lose her as a friend. If she really is your best friend she will understand but if she doesn't then you don't need her around. Hope this helped xoxo

I'm going through this situation right now.. Only difference is, me and my ex broke up 2days ago and today(29th january)they started dating.. But not every relationship is forever and even if it is, be happy for her.. I know its difficult.. But my problem is.. He keeps on inviting me on bbm and I really don't want him on my contact list, nore do I want him in my life
What I did and still am doing:
*I've learnt to let go of what we had because its over and it'll never happen again

*even though it still bugs me inside, I do not take any note of it.. REMEMBER! Boys come and go

There are plenty of fish in the sea so all you have to do is let go because its done