Hi... my boyfriend and I have been dating a year and 3 months and we were fighting a lot the past week about dumb random things. I apologized and told him I loved him and just let's forget about it. But then his best friend told me about a girl that he gave a ride home to and a hug, I confronted him about it and he said he wasn't serious about the hug and that he did give her a ride home. Then I got mad because the girl that he gave a ride to likes him, like OVERLY obsessively likes him, she has tried to break us up at least 4 times. Anyway, he told me he just didn't see the point in dating because all we do is fight and that made me even more mad so I said OK, go date her then. And then we hung up. I called him back and said I loved him and I didn't want to break up and he said he didn't want to either but he thinks we should... we fought about it and he was dead set on breaking up so we are now on a break.. his friends say don't worry about it he will come back but I am really worried... and I don't know what to do. Should I give up? Should I not talk to him till he talks to me? HELLLPPP!! :(

I can see you sent this post sometime ago, well I do hope he gets in touch, if anything has happened with this girl though I would not be able to forgive him, even if it wasn't cheating, this girl has tried to break you's up 4times before and now she's at it again, and he's not siding with you, and the worst thing is your probably not even a paranoid person but this maybe has your nerves gone, no wonder your fighting all the time! If nothing has happened with her and your sure of this then you call him if you have to! You need to know where you stand, ask him to put himself in your shoes, admit your paranoid but also why exactly your paranoid, he may be just a really laid back bloke (like my own bf) and it gets annoying sometimes but the best thing to do is admit your wrongs to him and praise his laid back attitude (I wish I had an attitude that was laid back) good luck, hope I made some kind of sense :P