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darkveil
Dec 3, 2010, 03:44 AM
My Boyfriend of 3 years has strong feelings for another woman whom he works with,they used to be friends but not anymore as he stopped the friendship as sson as he realised he had feelings for her. My partner told me that he wants to be with me and not her.what should I do?
redhed35
Dec 3, 2010, 04:50 AM
Trust what he is saying is true and that he wants to be with you.
No trust no relationship.
If you can't live with what he is telling you perhaps the relationship has run its course?
pandead
Dec 3, 2010, 05:07 AM
It takes a lot of courage to tell someone these things. He wouldn't tell you anything if he didn't think you two could work things out.
Trust him and communicate. A lot. Good luck.
Devorameira
Dec 3, 2010, 06:36 AM
I have to agree, he's being really open and honest with you about it. If he actually wanted to cheat, he wouldn't have told you about the way he is feeling OR he'd have just broken up with you, but he didn't because he wants to be with you.
Why not just trust him?
talaniman
Dec 3, 2010, 09:55 AM
Why would you not take him at his word??
stinaann
Dec 3, 2010, 11:06 AM
If he stopped all ties with her, b happy. That means he wants to be true to you and only you. Listen and trust.
I wish
Dec 3, 2010, 12:05 PM
He told he what he wants.
What do you want? Do you want to be with him the same way he wants to be with you?