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cromwell421
Dec 2, 2010, 12:51 PM
I Have a Question, See I liked this girl But, She Dated me and then TOLD ME THAT SHE NEVER REALLY LIKED ME Then Dated My best Friend Then She broke up with him today And Now she's DATING MY other Best Friend Then Nathan asked if I was cool I Said YES But I really AREN'T Cool WITH HIM! HOW CAN HE ASPECT ME TO BE COOL WITH HIM DATING MY OLD GIRL. I FRUSTRATED WITH BOTH OF THEM AND HOW THEY CO DO THIS TO ME!. I HATE MY BEST FRIEND NOW... HELP.. PLEASE! I'm 9 Years Old In the 4th Grade Ooh almost FORGOT MY OLD GIRL IS A GOLD DIGGER !

talaniman
Dec 2, 2010, 03:40 PM
She didn't like you any way so why be jealous. At 9 years old, that boyfriend/girlfriend stuff changes very fast, so get someone else to like. But you will get use to it, and handle your feelings better because you can't make someone like you, or keep liking you, or even who they like next.

You're only nine, and your not really dating, just playing at it. In a few years you will get to experience the real thing, but until then, don't sweat the small stuff.

answerme_tender
Dec 2, 2010, 03:58 PM
Crom,

Why would you hate your friend. He asked your permission, you said yes. Just because you have changed your mind isn't fair to now hate your friend. You are the one being a bad friend, not him. Girlfiends will come and go at in life, but a friend is always nice to have, they are there after the girl breaks up with you. Next time you don't want a friend to like an old girlfriend you better be up front and say NO. Go outside and play, let the fresh air clear your mind, don't worry about girls,play some games with other neighborhood kids!!

jjdancer
Dec 22, 2010, 04:06 PM
Well, your really young for that. You should be thinking about other stuff like getting an A on your math test. I mean I'm twelve in the sixth grade and I've never eaven held a guys hand!I'm focusing on school not on dating or boys.dont hate your friend it could turn out to be something ugly. Like whenever I have fights with my friends and I say I hate them,they tell my dirty secrets to other people. It's the golden rule, treat people the way you want to be treated back.