I'm bisexual. I haven't had actual sex with a guy yet (I.E. penis penetration). I understand that if you're with a girl and she fingers you it's sex according to lesbian sex. But I was the one penetrating HER, she's never gone down on me or anything.

So if I do have sex with a guy, and he asks me if I'm a virgin, is it yes or no?

Oh, I forgot to put this but I am a GIRL.

Before we can answer we have to ask how old you are.

Um... I don't think your age matters. Technically you are a virgin. If you have this discussion with someone in the future, just be honest and give them an idea of what you have done. That is more important than your technical status.

Age does matter. This is the Adult sexuality board. We have rules for posting and answering questions on this board.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/announcement-font-color-red-b-over-18s-only-font-b-b-u-read-before-posting-adult-sexuality-u-b.html

Ditto alty.

Amhd resources. Amhd rules.

I'm 18, sorry I didn't put that :(

No, you're still a virgin until you have penis penetration. I'm unfamiliar with lesbian virginism, but for straights and gays, penis penetration is the loss of virginity.