Asalamwailaikum... My mother is of american descent she gave my to my father at her own will when I was 7 yrs old Im 30 now. She never once visited me when I turned 23 I found her and went and saw her she lives pretty far, Im in Ny she is in Oklahoma. I started helping her financially I got married alhamdulillah had 3 kids but my mother always has a issue with me she excepts what I give her as far as money but she is very ungrateful, I don't even want her to be grateful just stop making problems. I even brought her here last year to see my family I treated her well and introduced her to my wife and kids and when she got back she starts fighting with me for no reason. Now she is making fasad between me and my family... all she wants is money. I forgave her for all of the past and she is giving me a headache Subhanallah. Dr. I know the mothers importance to ALLAH but my mother was never there and now she is giving me problems after all she didn't do for meIt is becoming hard to bare with her It is bothering me mentally I can't understand how she did nothing for me and I help her and yet she is still hurtful to me.My fathers parents raised me since I 7yrs old, what is my wajib to her? PLEASE I NEED HELP... JAZAK ALLAH KHARAN.

Moved to Islam

To show her that you love her and never gave up on her , I know it's hurts when a mom fighting with you with no reason , but she is the one brought you in this world , so man ignore all the proplems and tell her always that you love her so much , and kiss her from her forehead every time you say that to her , say to her all the times beautifull words mothers love that , do as best you can to proof to her that you are there for her