Klaipeda
Nov 17, 2010, 12:52 PM
Hi everyone all the suggestions are very welcome!
My date was very smelly man-feet,bad teeth gave terrible breath ( and he didn't stop talking.To be impressive he was talking and talking). The armpits smelled. It got to the point I felt sick.He constantly wanted to kiss. We used to go to the coffees to eat and his smell of the feet mixed with the food aroma was just awful to me.
At the beginning of our relationship I gently told him that I do not like body odors- the message quite clear for the person to understand that he needs more hygiene. However he did nothing. He was smelling really badly. He used to come to my workplace with the shirt that was dirty, with blood spots from shaving or else. I work in medical Center and for me to show him to my colleagues would have been the shame.. He is educated man and had good job but I just could not put up with the smell. I kept on pressing and talking him gently that , can you please apply some deodorant to the feet and perspirations stick. And can you register to the dentist? If I would not tell him that I don't think he would ever considered doing something at all.
Eventually I think he just had enough and he left me. He simply doesn't call me anymore..
Should I think that I could have done something better,-not to offend him or else. Maybe I was too harsh. But I think that simple hygiene and checking your stance of cleanliness is good for anybody.
( Besides that he never listened me to the end he always interrupted me if I was saying or telling anything looking bored if I was speaking.)
So can anybody please tell me is it ME or is it HIM?
He used to bring me flowers, was nice, kind agreeable. But interrupting and smelly. I saw myself living with him, but he just stop calling and I could sense that he doesn't like me anymore. There is as saying- one cannot change the person ,-either thake him for the way he is or lea\ve him. But how could I take him being sooo smelly?
Thank you so much!
My date was very smelly man-feet,bad teeth gave terrible breath ( and he didn't stop talking.To be impressive he was talking and talking). The armpits smelled. It got to the point I felt sick.He constantly wanted to kiss. We used to go to the coffees to eat and his smell of the feet mixed with the food aroma was just awful to me.
At the beginning of our relationship I gently told him that I do not like body odors- the message quite clear for the person to understand that he needs more hygiene. However he did nothing. He was smelling really badly. He used to come to my workplace with the shirt that was dirty, with blood spots from shaving or else. I work in medical Center and for me to show him to my colleagues would have been the shame.. He is educated man and had good job but I just could not put up with the smell. I kept on pressing and talking him gently that , can you please apply some deodorant to the feet and perspirations stick. And can you register to the dentist? If I would not tell him that I don't think he would ever considered doing something at all.
Eventually I think he just had enough and he left me. He simply doesn't call me anymore..
Should I think that I could have done something better,-not to offend him or else. Maybe I was too harsh. But I think that simple hygiene and checking your stance of cleanliness is good for anybody.
( Besides that he never listened me to the end he always interrupted me if I was saying or telling anything looking bored if I was speaking.)
So can anybody please tell me is it ME or is it HIM?
He used to bring me flowers, was nice, kind agreeable. But interrupting and smelly. I saw myself living with him, but he just stop calling and I could sense that he doesn't like me anymore. There is as saying- one cannot change the person ,-either thake him for the way he is or lea\ve him. But how could I take him being sooo smelly?
Thank you so much!