Let me Google that for you (http://lmgtfy.com/?q=3-way+switch+diagrams)

Here is a wiring diagram for a 3 way switch. White wire is netural, color wires are the hot legs. Hope this helps.

http://www.electrical-online.com/3-way-switch-wiring-diagram-variation-3/

Hi Port-ludlow-Bob and welcome to AMHD!

However, please note the dates of the threads you are posting too as, for example, Stanfortyman answered this question way back in 2010!

Have a good day!

Mark

Thanks Mark for the information I will look first from now on.