Hi, so my ex called me a few days ago , which was a complete shock to me and that was the last thing I expected. I wasn't sure how I felt, just kind of nervous actually. He sounded nice and as he lives in a diff conuntry than me, he said he is coming back just to pick up some of his things from the place he lived at before. He hasn't been here for 4 - 5 months and neither have we spoken on the phone for that time. Only one message passed between us during this time.
He asked if I wanted to meet up for a drink with him. But I'm not sure if I should see him, I want to and I'm actually excited to, but then again I'm nervous to see him, for if he says he found someone else, then I would be very upset, because I do not want to know. We both wanted to stay friends, and just chat once in a while. But should I see him for a drink after the things I have just said?

I am thinking that because I am also moving to another country in a few months far far away I won't see him again at least not for a very long time, and I have other great things happening in my life right now that I can brag to him, and let him know that I'm doing just great with myself.

Now should I should I meet up with him ?

Rnm

In my opinion, NO. Its to hard to have to open those painful feelings all over again. There are still there, maybe scabbed over, but with a scrape they will exposed all over again. You can prove to him that you are doing just fine without him by not showing ANY INTEREST to see him or even talk to him. I would just be too busy. Besides he is just testing the water, seeing if you are still into him and if so, what HE can get out of it.

Well I think you should cause if you don't u will regret it as I'm doing some regrets right now from one of my old boy as a friend so go for it don't make that mistake... good luck on it

Why did you two break up in the 1st place? and no you shouldt if its so important for him to see you he will make it happen