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iheartbean
Nov 10, 2010, 01:10 AM
There's a guy at my school and I reeeeallly like him but he's one of my best friends. He's recently moved here and I didn't like him at first but now its different because I realized he's a great guy. But when everyone says I like him, which I didn't at first, and I deny it, I feel bad because I doooo like him. I don't know what to do and I found out today that my best friend (a girl) likes him and she told me :( I'm sooo confused because I don't want to ruin her chances but I don't know if I should tell him because I think it's the right thing to do... PLEEEEASE HELP

BrownDeceit
Nov 10, 2010, 01:19 AM
Honestly. I wouldn't risk your friendship with your friend... Chances are you're in high school or junior high? And those relationships USUALLY don't last... Don't risk a friendship over this... If you still want to pursue him anyway... Have a chat with your friend about him so you don't look like you're going behind her back...

CrazyKid112
Nov 10, 2010, 03:11 PM
Hmm, this is hard if you really like him. There's two friendships at risk here do you want to risk losing both? I think you should think about if your going to tell this guy or your friend. Just think and be careful because the worst thing to do is too take a chance that may be too big and lose your friend(s)

Devorameira
Nov 11, 2010, 05:22 AM
You'd be smart to stay out of it altogether or you may risk both of your friendships.

Just remain a friend to both of them and forget about wanting him as a boyfriend.

Mintasaur
Dec 22, 2010, 10:02 PM
That really stinks. If you really care for the guy, wait it out. Maybe your friend will get over him and you can go at him.

But on the other hand, if you do that, he and your friend may start dating.

I think honestly the best thing to do in this situation is to confront your friend and tell her the truth. Then if she's an understanding friend, you guys can come up with a plan together.

Sorry its not a very direct answer. Good luck xx